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Widow on Wall Street

I spent my first day in New York at my bank’s Investor Day, not something I was likely to do before 2009. About 200 people were in the room to hear top analysts, bankers and portfolio managers discuss finance and investments. Less than 10 percent of the attendees, including bank…

 

Peace Hill, aptly named

Deep in the heart of rural Charles City County—so close geographically to both Richmond and Williamsburg, so far away in its complete lack of urban life—under a canopy of enormous trees near the bend in the Chickahominy River is Peace Hill. According to legend, native Americans smoked the pipe of…

 

Finding Community in New Places

Colonial Williamsburg was a familiar name, because my cousin married a girl from the area, and his parents moved here from New Orleans after they retired. My parents visited on several occasions, and I heard all their glowing reports. We planned at least two trips but never made it. Then,…

 

6 Good Reasons to Entertain at Home Alone

Women who find themselves suddenly single again—whether widowed or divorced–after years as half a couple are often at a loss on how to entertain. I threw my first big party—a properly decorous event—seven months after Lev died, and I have grown increasingly comfortable entertaining at home alone in the years…

 

Loneliness–A Catalyst for Change

Elizabeth Head Black, a gifted writer, blogged again recently about loneliness. Elizabeth’s personal story is a story of loneliness–17 moves in 49 years. She turned to the Psalms for comfort and found God’s answer to her loneliness. A book emerged from her meditations on the Psalms–Hand in Hand: Walking with the…

 

14 Tips for Safe Solo Travel

Since travel played such a large role in my journey from grief to joy as a new widow, I have blogged almost weekly on the subject in the five months since I created my website. I listed what I had learned from the past six years of travel, and I…